Saturday, October 30, 2010

感情再久也要相愛...

看到這篇文章很有意思...想要來提醒自己...也來分享一下...

兩個人在一起久了,好多年。感情已經很穩定、彼此了解、不會分手,覺得已經是家人、是親人了...一個眼神,一個微小的動作,都知道對方在想什麼、要做什麼,知道這輩子就是他了。一切都順理成章的進行著,就等著畢業、工作、結婚。

並不能因為這樣的穩定,而忽略了生活上的細節,從而忽略了對方的感覺。就算再堅固的感情,也會受傷、也會被別人趁虛而入的。所以,我們要注意這些小節,因為生活就是由每個小節組成的。如果你不想分手,想一直走一輩子。那麼,請注意以下這些:

1、隨時能聯系到彼此。因為生活學習工作的原因,兩個人經常分開是難免的,而對現在的我們來說,手機應是我們最主要的聯系工具。不要沒事就關機,或者不帶電話,電話沒電要及時換電池、充電。我給你打電話,不是要監督你、檢查你,而是要知道你平安,你現在很好。所以,請24小時開機,如果當時因為種種原因沒有接電話,事後一定要馬上打回來,主動說明原因。

2、經常談心,讓彼此知道對方的想法。這一點是兩個人長久相處最重要的一點。不溝通哪來的彼此了解,不了解怎麼能形成默契。你也不用像做思想匯報一樣的說自己的心理活動。就像聊天一樣,說說自己身邊發生的事,自己的想法,或者說說兩個人之間的相處之道。談戀愛談戀愛,不交談怎麼戀愛?不要把什麼都憋在心裏,這樣你憋得難受,我猜得也難受,女人本來就是愛胡思亂想的。往往很多事,你把它說出來,反而倒沒事了。你什麼都不說,只會沒事變有事,甜蜜變傷心。

3、吵架要發洩出來,不能隔夜。兩個人在一起,吵架是避免不了的。但是希望兩個人不要冷戰,可以爭吵,可以打架。讓彼此都發洩出來,這樣才不會生病。更不要隔夜,生氣睡覺是最容易死人的,除非你是沒心沒肺的那種,躺下就著,一點事兒沒有的。但最好還是當天解決,因為很多事往往越擱越難解決。

4、互相尊重。不光說話要互相尊重,還要尊重彼此的思想、行為。尤其是在對方朋友面前,不要過分的顯示你有多麼牛,你一定要佔上風,因為主角本來就不是你。不是說,你在他朋友面前,一定要給足他面子,貶低自己,那樣他在朋友面前就會顯得怎麼怎麼樣,就是愛他、尊重他。而是說不要刻意的貶低他,顯示自己,而是要互相捧著說,那樣才會讓別人覺得你們是互相尊重,感情平等的。

5、不要跟異性朋友沒完沒了的聯系。每個人都有異性朋友,這也不是什麼不好的事情。反而能說明你這個人心理很健康。但是你的異性朋友不要太多,超過同性朋友更是有問題的。聯系可以,但不要太過頻繁。有這麼一句話:“跟愛人吵架,跟陌生人說心裏話。”你跟異性朋友永遠是溫柔的,心裏話都說給她們。可是跟愛人卻是冷漠的,惜字如金的,什麼心裏話都不說。那麼你們的感情肯定經不起一點兒風浪,和平也只是暫時的,一旦對方受不了了,爆發了,那麼你們肯定就完蛋了。

6、不要吝嗇你的嘴。兩個人交往,甜言蜜語是應該的,這也是最增進感情的一種方式。不要因為在一起時間久了,覺得沒必要說這些了,就吝嗇自己的嘴,情話要經常說。

7、態度決定一切。不要動不動就不耐煩、發脾氣、亂吼。誰都有心情不好,誰都有不高興的時候。但是你要跟對方說明原因,不要無緣無故的兇人。

8、兩個人吵架,不管是誰的錯,必須有人先低頭道歉,哄對方;而另一個人也必須很給面子的配合,迅速和好。

我們長大了,不再像小時候那麼單純,一看就懂。這個世界上的誘惑也變多了,你不去招惹她,她會來倒貼你的。人越大,心思就越多。如果你不去努力維護你的感情,不去用心的對待你的另一半,那麼再堅定地感情也會被摧毀的。

Monday, October 25, 2010

Bunny's Teenage birthday party!!!

Alrite...
since it's the actual day of my bunny's birthday
wanna say happy birthday to her in here 
and also post about her birthday party

Bunny celebrate her birthday last last Fri...(cos now is Mon d...)
we celebrate her birthday at Movida which located at Giza Sunway
i was so outdated and it was my 1st time there
but i like the environment there...
shall go there again :)
and she set her birthday party theme as "Teenage dreams birthday party"

We all wear very young and colorful on that night
as we wanna catch the tail of our youth moment before it faded out...
that night we saw lots of long lost friends...
such as lovely May Ai (miss her badly!!), Liew (the newly papa), Chinlay (not very long lost but long time no c), Allent (the uncle wannabe XD), Daniel (bz ppl that seldom join us d)...
and Kiki did joined us also...

Frankly to tell
that was a great night!!!
but there's also pros and cons on the party...

It was Bunny's 1st hold party
tat's mean she 1st time becomes 女主人 of the party...
felt happy for her!!!
and she also did alot of preparation for her birthday...
she ban leng leng and make up leng leng on that night...
happy to see her happy...

She drink alot on that night
although she was abit naughty but oklar...
cos her birthday she "dai sai"
i won't scold her or what...
just let her do what make her happy on her big day...

She got a successful party
cos she invited most of her friends and most of them did showed up...
including those unexpected... :P

But there were some friends not so close to each other
and i felt that Maggie should brought they all together and enjoy together...
don't separate here and there...
very hard to manage everything...

And also...
all of us expected that Movida is a pub or lounge like Library or even Muse like my previous bday party
mana tau it's a CLUB
and the music was so loud until everyone hard to talk to each other...
hmmm...maybe 1st time been there we all don't know about that...

Plus it's very dark inside
since it's a place for clubbing...
the environment very dark and very hard to talk and join each other...
maybe it was why everyone like sitting here and there
not enjoying together...

Besides from that i think it was a successful party ♥
at least i knew Maggie was enjoying herself on that night...
here's some pics of the night
happy to see she love her new Adidas limited edition Dunk so much!!!♥
 Her new birthday pressie from all gals♥
 All the blogshop owners: My Kedai Runcit, OurBeautyDiary, Room8008

 my lovely long lost dearie May Ai♥
 My nerdy Pac-Man dear with bday gal
 Can u see she's tipsy?? XD
 Our colorful leggings♥
 Her Adidas limited edition High Dunk!!!
the ladies♥
Lastly me & my dear dear♥

Sunday, October 17, 2010

Wig mania♥

Actually i got very very long straight hair
i keep it long all the while cos i think long hair is easy for styling
u can curl whenever u want
or just tie up a bun like those japanese gals...
long hair is easy for any style
so i wont cut my hair short

But sometimes i saw some pretty gals with short or middle length hair 
feel like wanna be one of them
but i don't wish to sacrify my long hair...

And sometimes i will feel bored as always go out with my straight long hair...
wanna make some changes to it but don't want make it short

Finally i found some ideas for my hair
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WIG!!!

I love playing with wig actually
cos when u want short bob hair
u can hide all ur long hair and wear the wig u want...
it makes u look different and fresh...
not the usual BORING u anymore~~~!!!

I got 1 short bob wig 
it make me look dolly
i like it so much...
i never thought that short bob hair suits me so much...

And i just saw from Minimaos
OMG!!!they are selling nice japanese style wig!!!
i'm gonna get them!!!
They bring in those Japanese models wig!!!

They got Miliyah wig!!!
*Credit to Minimaos*
Everyone loves the famouse Miliyah!!!
She's the fashion goddess singer in Japan!!!
i think u can always see her in Vivi magazine...

Got Rinka wig
*Credit to Chessie*
Rinka is ex-Vivi model
she's so lovely with her signature shoulder length bob!!!

Then they also bring in Tsubasa wig!!!
 
*Credit to Minimaos* 
This is also the signature hairstyle of Tsubasa

And also Romihi wig
*Credit to Chessie*
Romihi is famous with her blondy hair
and she's the model from EGG Japan fashion magazine

Personally i like Rinka wig & Miliyah wig
and finally i bought Rinka wig from Minimaos d...
gonna get Miliyah wig also!!!
yay!!!

I can always change my hairstyle in very easy way d!!!


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XOXO